As You Wish Position

 

As You Wish

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Set aside an evening for one of you to be completely pampered. The giver lavishes their complete attention on the receiver—via massage, mouth, hands and toys—expecting nothing in return. (If the giver gets way too turned on or whatever, they can jerk off after—but only after—the other person is beyond fully pleased.) If you're the one doing the pampering, prep ahead of time by setting out candles, really nice lube, and a toy or two they might like. Send your partner a photo of your bedside table filled with what awaits them. If you are the pampered one, let yourself fully enjoy your partner's touch—you are not allowed to reciprocate, so it's a great exercise in just relaxing and receiving.

The Lap Dance Position

 

The Lap Dance

A lap dance is not just super hot, it also can be super intimate. “Take some time to kiss, caress and gaze into one another’s eyes as you straddle them,” says sex and relationship expert, Jess O'Reilly, PhD, host of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. “Face-to-face positions may be more appealing if you feel eye contact creates a stronger connection and deepens feelings of intimacy. Slow your breath and breathe. You can experience physiological synchronization and the shared movement and flow can help you to tune into the moment, which can lead to heightened pleasure and intimacy.”

The Rocking Horse

 

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For a romanced-up version of cowgirl, have the bottom person sit straight up, leaning back on a wall or headboard for support. Press your upper bodies together (see above: “Get really close,” check ✅) for ample kissing (check ✅), eye contact (check ✅) and caressing (well, that’s just always good). “The rocking motion of the top partner is great for stimulating the vulva, but if you love clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex, a c-shaped vibrator or vibrating penis ring work really well in this position,” says certified sexpert Isabelle Uren, writer at Bedbible.com.

The Melting Position

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The Melting Hug

For a really deep feeling of connection, try a tantric bonding exercise called the Melting Hug. “Undress yourselves very slowly in front of one another and then wrap yourselves in a long, full-body embrace (standing up only) for 10-15 minutes, breathing in unison,” says Rose. “It’s a deeply bonding practice that helps relax partners into a sexual and erotic space together.” This can lead to something or be the something—it’s that intense

The Throwback Position

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The Throwback

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Remember how insanely hot early make-out sessions were? Lots of awkward and ill-formed pawing, yes, but also that sort of desperate grinding against each other where you just…wanted. Recreate it with a fully clothed make-out session and revel/suffer in that feeling of wanting each other so damn much. You can end up fully naked or go all in with the outercourse, whether that’s a toy pressed against jeans or an old-timey dry hump.

How To Do The Happy Baby Position

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The Happy Baby 

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“This seashell requires good hamstring strength and flexibility, but in this version, like the yoga position Happy Baby, the woman can hold her feet in her hands to stabilize herself,” says Skyler. Since your hands won’t be free in this one, add a vibrating penis ring if you like/need vibration to have an orgasm.

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How To Do Flying V Position

 

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The Flying V 

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“This is a fabulous position for deeper penetration and easy to access no matter your flexibility or physical ability,” says Skyler, adding that if the receiver needs to rest their legs, they can put them on the penetrating partner's shoulders. Since your hands are free, it’s also a very vibrator-friendly position. Grab your favorite clitoral stimulator and go to town.

3 Doggy-Style Sex Positions That’ll Make Your Romp So Hot and Intimate

Prepare for doggy to become your new fave.

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Doggy sex, aka doggy style, can be whatever you want it to be. The position is known for its animalistic vibe—it is inspired dogs humping, after all—and is great for quickies, anal sex, pegging, and can even be surprisingly intimate. By the same token, though, you can also make it really rough and BDSM-y. “Many people enjoy doggy while engaging in Dom-sub dynamics, and you can easily incorporate restraints into this position,” says sex and relationships expert at Lovehoney, Jess O’Reilly, PhD. 

It's also just…extremely hot. “Doggy style offers visual stimulation for the rear partner and plenty of space for manual stimulation of the genitals for the front partner,” says O’Reilly. Plus trying something new is a great way to ~spice up~ your sex life. 

“Changing positions is a simple way to switch up your sexual routine and inject novelty into sex play,” says O’Reilly. “It’s likely that new positions will lead to new discoveries. You might experience new sensations from the stimulation of a different area or you might find that you have a different type of orgasm by activating a different nerve pathway.” 

The basic idea of doggy is that the receiving partner is on all fours while the penetrating partner enters from behind. From there, customize it however you’d like. The receiver can lower themselves into the flatiron position, hold themselves up on their hands or elbows, hold their head up or lower it onto a stack of pillows—whatever floats your sexy boat! 

If you’re into sex toys or want to try incorporating them, doggy is the perfect opportunity. “When couples ask for toy recommendations, I almost always start with a penis or strap-on ring. They’re easy to add on to any sexual routine without making any significant changes,” says O’Reilly, who recommends the We-Vibe Pivot or Romp Juke. You can also add a couples’ vibe like the We-Vibe Chorus. “It’s ideal for doggy style, as it provides vibrations to both partners. It vibes against the shaft of the penis or strap-on with pressure and vibes against the internal hotspots internally, as well as against the shaft, hood and head of the clitoris via the external arm.” And if you’re a clit stim kind of person, a suction-type vibe or pretty much any kind of vibrator works great too. 

Here’s the how to do the classic doggy position, plus a couple of variations, but as you experiment, you’ll find new tweaks to make it better for you. 

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The Classic Dog

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The receiving partner gets on all fours and the penetrating partner kneels behind to enter. “Use pillows to prop yourself up. Not only will you experience different sensations at different angles, but it can make this position more comfortable for both partners,” says O’Reilly. Make it better with a penis ring for deep, rumply vibrations for both of you. (These vibes, alas, won’t do much for someone wearing a strap-on. Try a wearable strap-on that vibrates in the vagina.)

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The Slo-Mo Dog

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If the whole thing seems a little impersonal or not exactly intimate, slow it waaaay down. Deliciously long, deliberate thrusts, coupled with an ass massage and gentle clit stroking will help you two feel more connected, like full-on loving humans instead of a couple canines hitting it in the alley.

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The Tight Dog

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If you’re looking for a tighter feel, have your partner put their legs outside of yours, then press your legs firmly together. O’Reilly recommends adding a clit suction vibrator like the Womanizer Premium II. “It offers the most unique sensation that I’d describe as a cross between suction, vibrations, and pulsations. On its own, it’s an orgasm powerhouse, but if you combine it with penetration from behind, it can lead