As You Wish Position

 

As You Wish

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Set aside an evening for one of you to be completely pampered. The giver lavishes their complete attention on the receiver—via massage, mouth, hands and toys—expecting nothing in return. (If the giver gets way too turned on or whatever, they can jerk off after—but only after—the other person is beyond fully pleased.) If you're the one doing the pampering, prep ahead of time by setting out candles, really nice lube, and a toy or two they might like. Send your partner a photo of your bedside table filled with what awaits them. If you are the pampered one, let yourself fully enjoy your partner's touch—you are not allowed to reciprocate, so it's a great exercise in just relaxing and receiving.

The Lap Dance Position

 

The Lap Dance

A lap dance is not just super hot, it also can be super intimate. “Take some time to kiss, caress and gaze into one another’s eyes as you straddle them,” says sex and relationship expert, Jess O'Reilly, PhD, host of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. “Face-to-face positions may be more appealing if you feel eye contact creates a stronger connection and deepens feelings of intimacy. Slow your breath and breathe. You can experience physiological synchronization and the shared movement and flow can help you to tune into the moment, which can lead to heightened pleasure and intimacy.”

The Rocking Horse

 

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For a romanced-up version of cowgirl, have the bottom person sit straight up, leaning back on a wall or headboard for support. Press your upper bodies together (see above: “Get really close,” check ✅) for ample kissing (check ✅), eye contact (check ✅) and caressing (well, that’s just always good). “The rocking motion of the top partner is great for stimulating the vulva, but if you love clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex, a c-shaped vibrator or vibrating penis ring work really well in this position,” says certified sexpert Isabelle Uren, writer at Bedbible.com.

The Melting Position

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The Melting Hug

For a really deep feeling of connection, try a tantric bonding exercise called the Melting Hug. “Undress yourselves very slowly in front of one another and then wrap yourselves in a long, full-body embrace (standing up only) for 10-15 minutes, breathing in unison,” says Rose. “It’s a deeply bonding practice that helps relax partners into a sexual and erotic space together.” This can lead to something or be the something—it’s that intense

The Throwback Position

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The Throwback

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Remember how insanely hot early make-out sessions were? Lots of awkward and ill-formed pawing, yes, but also that sort of desperate grinding against each other where you just…wanted. Recreate it with a fully clothed make-out session and revel/suffer in that feeling of wanting each other so damn much. You can end up fully naked or go all in with the outercourse, whether that’s a toy pressed against jeans or an old-timey dry hump.

How To Do The Happy Baby Position

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The Happy Baby 

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“This seashell requires good hamstring strength and flexibility, but in this version, like the yoga position Happy Baby, the woman can hold her feet in her hands to stabilize herself,” says Skyler. Since your hands won’t be free in this one, add a vibrating penis ring if you like/need vibration to have an orgasm.

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How To Do Flying V Position

 

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The Flying V 

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“This is a fabulous position for deeper penetration and easy to access no matter your flexibility or physical ability,” says Skyler, adding that if the receiver needs to rest their legs, they can put them on the penetrating partner's shoulders. Since your hands are free, it’s also a very vibrator-friendly position. Grab your favorite clitoral stimulator and go to town.